I see mixed couples in public and guess at their ethnicities, then catalog them in my imaginary database. I compulsively count the mixed couples I know and tally the various combos—white man plus Japanese woman, Mexican woman plus Jewish man, black man plus Vietnamese man. I am not a scientist. I know that bias and anecdotal evidence do not make for winning Internet arguments. But anecdotal evidence does have its place.
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I dated many Asian ladies. If we frequent a typical American club, I have had my dates threaten by American women in the restroom. In time, Asian clubs sprung up in the United States. At an Asian club, American women are welcome. I have never seen an American lady being threaten by Asians in a typical Asian club. The crowd in these clubs are usually Asian ladies and American men. Do these asian women like serving their husband?
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She might also hear the same phrase if she happens to reject a South Asian man romantically, even if race has not played a part in her decision. And, why are black people used by Asian men who are unable to grapple with rejection or criticism thrown their way? To them, the woman is airing her dirty laundry internal community discussion is expected to stay internal. I find that behaviour disgusting.
Journals Sophia's World. These stereotypes absolutely exist, and they are harmful. For me, it hits close to home.